Don't worry, I know other Spander 'shippers and it's okay, but I don't get it. Spangel I can understand even though I don't 'ship, but I'm too much of a canon girl to accept Spike and Xander other than as potential friends.

I think the appeal of Xander/Spike is about how to get them together, how to make them develop into accepting each other. It's the same as Spuffy being so interesting and popular because it took so long for Spike and Buffy to work it out, same with Xander and Spike, they also have a lot in common and that makes it work for many people including me. But I get why people can't see it. :)

As for your question, well I don't know what your first language is, and English isn't my native language neither, but I took the phrase as the final 'ship which makes sense at the end of the day, the 'ship that must overcome despite everything.

Thanks sweetie :) My first language is French. Your picks are amazing for this category.